Etiquette
Success Follows the Rules
Etiquette with an Escort
Etiquette with an escort is of paramount importance. Those who do not follow it… directement, à la poubelle.
I always take care to state my boundaries clearly. In return, I expect and need you to commit to respecting my boundaries 100% of the time. This will all but guarantee smooth sailing once we meet. Cool, right?
Breaking any of my rules carries the risk of my breaking the date off immediately, at your financial loss. I have done this. Not fun.
Photos / Recording
I am never to be photographed or recorded at any time, ever. The only exception would be my handing you my phone to take a photo of me for myself. I never communicate via audio or video, due to the risk of recording.
No secret photography/filming/audio recording. Voyeurism in the first degree is a felony offense. There are those who would willingly sell such recordings, but alas, I am not one of them.
Discretion Etiquette
Written communication: Allusions to any kind of physical intimacy (including any and all acronyms), at any time, will result in a permanent block. Such behavior is inherently indiscreet, owing to the vulnerability of internet communications to bad actors. Reminder: I never communicate via phone calls (or any other audio) or video channels – only end-to-end-encrypted email.
Always keep in mind that compensation is for my time and company only. Written communication is for making meeting/dinner/show/travel plans, not communicating personal fantasies that could put us both at risk. The only safe time for us to speak more deeply is when we are face to face. Thank you for being smart and considerate about this!
Envelope: If we meet in a hotel room, please simply leave an (unsealed) envelope in the bathroom. If we meet in public, please hand the envelope to me tucked inside of a gift bag, or a book (I love receiving books as gifts), or any creative, disguising manner you choose, and do not acknowledge it in any way. That’s a fun way to get it out of the way, so we can then focus totally on being with each other in the present!
Company: Never surprise me with the company of anyone you know. If we meet, I am consenting to be seen and heard only by you. Once we know each other better, I may consider attending professional functions and parties. I once convinced a small friend group of attorneys that I was one of them, at my date’s request. Fun times! But my date had built up trust with me first.
PDA (Public Display of Affection)
Please, no PDA. No one within eyesight or earshot should be able to infer our arrangement. The average person is very attuned to …unusual… couples and unfortunately won’t hesitate to stare or make unkind remarks.
Appearances
While together in public, if we look very different from each other to the extent that we look like quite an unlikely couple, please treat me, both physically and verbally, like a respected colleague. Please understand that this does not reflect how I feel about you as a person. I simply don’t like getting stared at, and I would guess you feel the same…thanks for working with me here!
If you are a sweatpants and t-shirt kind of guy, that’s totally fine! But please give me a heads up so I won’t arrive in a cocktail dress or business attire. Style contrasts like this will also draw unwelcome attention.
Etiquette with an Escort: Hygiene
Please be immaculately clean, and smelling fresh. When you shower…be thorough.
If your facial stubble is especially rough, please shave beforehand.
It’s important to shower, brush teeth, and wash hands often.
Please do not contact me if you have phimosis, or any other medical condition that causes unpleasant, un-natural body odor. While I do sympathize, this is not an experience I will agree to.
Privacy, Tact, and Decency
There are some things better left unsaid and undone, as I do not forgive easily.
Do not try to find out any of my personal information or where I live. Also, do not try to get me to change our arrangement to anything that does not benefit me financially or otherwise.
Please, no lurid questions about my lifestyle. Do not try to start a political or religious debate. Let’s always try to keep things light, encouraging, and fun.
I have met some politically conservative men who were lovely dates (treated me with respect), but truthfully, the majority of unpleasant dates I’ve had were with conservatives. If you think you “respect women” but think that my feelings, boundaries, and ability to consent are a joke, please look elsewhere.
In short, simply be decent. In return, I promise not to push your boundaries. Part of why people like me so much is that I put sincere effort into making them feel good and appreciated, and I enjoy doing that. I accept nothing less from my date.
The point is to have fun, be decent, and not do anything that undermines that aim.
Lastly
⚜ Always communicate respectfully. Acting too casual and overly-familiar too soon will make me feel wary. Trust is built, not paid for.
⚜ Never de-prioritize my health. If needed, think for a moment on what that could encompass.
⚜ You must possess a working knowledge of intimate partner health and safety, as well as the concept of enthusiastic consent.
⚜ You must view women as entitled to the same level of respect, courtesy, and freedom as men.
In conclusion, most men I meet have no issue at all following these rules, as they see them as second nature, and can’t fathom having a problem with any of it! I truly adore and admire such rare men.
Now that it’s out of the way, if you like how I think, and you appreciate how much thought and care I put into ensuring I stay happy, healthy, and genuinely pleased to meet you, please proceed to the Reservation form…
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